Home     Mission Statement     Free VIP Newsletter     Books     Blog     Articles     Affiliates     About     Contact
« « The Secret In Think and Grow Rich    The Typical Journey of Self Improvement » »

The Myth of “Hard Work” = Success

By: Brian Kim - November 11, 2006

If you're a first time visitor, I highly encourage you to click here to learn more about this site to see how it can TRULY change your life like no other site can and how millions around the world are already benefiting and getting the VERY BEST VALUE out of it! Thank you for visiting!

We hear all the time that hard work is the key to success. Just work hard on your goal and you’ll achieve it.

Let me make something clear though. You DO need to work hard in order to succeed in whatever goal you are trying to achieve. Hard work is required, but here’s the catch.

It’s all relative.

Hence, the quotes around the phrase “hard work”.

There’s two ways of looking at “hard work”.

Looking at hard work from the outside and looking at hard work from the inside, namely from the point of view of the person that’s actually doing the “hard work”.

Looking at hard work from the outside.

When you look at hard work from the outside, well, it looks just like that. Hard work. Hard, painful, backbreaking, stay up till sunrise hard work. This view is what the majority of people hold and what gets seared into their mind like a red hot poker is the association of pain with hard work. That kind of thinking is dangerous as it prevents people from pursuing their dreams because they want to avoid the pain that they link up to hard work. But like I said before, it’s all relative.

For example, the majority of people who look at what a student goes through in order to become a doctor construe that journey has “hard work”. He has to study for hours on end, intern at the hospital, make grades, etc. It’s a TON of hard work, when you look at it from the outside.

Look at it from the inside, namely from the student’s point of view.

Sure it’s hard work, but not like the kind of hard work that’s viewed on the outside. That student has something within him that drives him to do the hard work. Maybe it’s a genuine love for helping people. Maybe it’s because he thinks he’s destined to become a doctor or maybe it’s because of family pressure. Whatever the drive is, positive or negative, that drive within him gets him to do the hard work, so that it’s not hard work to him all, just plain old work, and if he loves what he does, then it's not even work at all to him.

If you stick two people in a room with two totally different jobs, you’ll get the same reaction. Say for example, one is a lawyer and another is a computer programmer. The lawyer will look at the programmer and conclude that what the programmer does is hard work. Why? Because it would be hard work for the lawyer to do what the computer programmer does. Chances are the lawyer has no idea whatsoever on how to write subroutines, modules, functions, etc.

The computer programmer will look at the lawyer and think the same thing. Why? The computer programmer knows nothing about writing briefs, arguing a case, jury selection, etc.

What’s happening is that each person is creating their own meaning of “hard work” based on their own range of knowledge and experience, and since everyone’s knowledge and experience is limited, anything outside of their scope of that is construed as “hard work.”

If the lawyer asks the programmer if his work is hard, the programmer will shrug it off, saying that “It’s just work”. The same thing with the lawyer.

So whenever you hear somebody harping about how “hard work” is the key to success, don’t let that faze you. Yes, you do need to work hard in order to succeed in achieving your goal, but it’s all in the eye of the worker. It’s all relative. If you have that drive within you, you’ll do the things that people on the outside will view as “hard work”, but to you, it’ll just be "work".

  Share |

  Email To A Friend   Bookmark Site   Read The Most Popular Articles

Similar Posts On BrianKim.net

Sign Up For The FREE VIP Self Improvement Newsletter To Get FULL ACCESS To ALL 500+ DEFINITIVE Articles on BrianKim.net And To Also Get The VERY Best Value From This Site
And Watch It Change Your Life!

Join Thousands of Subscribers From Over 140 Countries Around the World Whose Lives Have Definitely Changed for the Better And Who Are Actively Pursuing Their Hopes and Dreams!


(Actual Map of Newsletter Subscribers)

What Subscribers Are Saying:

As a subscriber you'll get:

    FREE Access to All 500+ DEFINITIVE Articles And Growing on BrianKim.net As Well As Links to the Newest Articles! packed with valuable information and resources on subjects such as goal setting, motivation, success, health, relationships, time management, and self improvement which won't be found anywhere else.
    FREE eCourse - How to Maximize The Power of Your Mind - learn what you were never taught in school about how your mind works, how you can maximize its power, and how you can use it to achieve the goals you've set. The material in this eCourse can change your life.
    FREE M.I.Ts - Motivational and Inspirational Thoughts sent Monday-Friday. These M.I.Ts will be personalized messages written by yours truly and will automatically be delivered to your inbox each weekday so you won't even have to think about it. It'll be right there when you wake up.

These M.I.Ts are purely meant to maybe provoke a thought, ask a question, make a suggestion and in the end, get you motivated and inspired to take action THAT DAY toward the direction of your dream because we all need a little boost of motivation and inspiration everyday, simply because the world is filled with such negativity and that fighting for your dreams is an uphill battle.

This VIP newsletter will contain more valuable information and resources like the articles found on this site.

And you don't have to worry about email blasting overload because I hate spam with the passion of a thousand suns put together. Your email address will not be shared with anyone else, GUARANTEED.

FIRST Name:
PRIMARY Email:

2 Responses to “The Myth of “Hard Work” = Success”

  1. lauren Says:

    Brian,
    I read an article on another website and the author says in Greek are two words for what we call work. One literally means “slave-work” and is the work you think you have to do which signifies no pleasure. The other word means “creative-work” which feels like the “no work at all” you mentioned in your article. I am inspired by your articles; I am currently doing The Occurring Course 2 Webinar with Morty Lefkoe which began last Tuesday and will continue every Tuesday into September. I also went through his Natural Confidence program which helped me get rid limiting beliefs. I believe that your work enhances and complements what I am accomplishing and hope to accomplish with Occurring Course. Thank you so much for your continuing and helpful blog articles and I look forward to more. Love and Light

  2. Brian Kim Says:

    You’re very welcome Lauren! I’m glad the articles have been able to help.

Due to the 500+ articles and comments being left everyday on them, I no longer have the time to respond to each one so I have disabled the comments section. If you wish to comment on articles and interact with me and other readers, you may want to sign up for The BrianKim.net Inner Circle. Invites are only given once a month and you can get more information by signing up for the VIP Newsletter.

   FREE VIP Newsletter

First Name:
Primary Email:

What Subscribers Are Saying

Here's a Taste of What You'll Get By Subscribing:

  • FREE Monthly Newsletter packed with valuable information and resources on subjects such as goal setting, motivation, success, health, relationships, time management, and self improvement which won't be found anywhere else.
  • FREE eCourse - How to Maximize The Power of Your Mind - learn what you were never taught in school about how your mind works, how you can maximize its power, and how you can use it to achieve the goals you've set. The material in this eCourse can change your life.
  • FREE M.I.Ts - Motivational and Inspirational Thoughts (written by yours truly) that'll inject a daily dose of positive energy, help start your day off right, and move you forward to the achievement of your goals.
  • It's completely FREE and you may unsubscribe at any time...