Why It’s So Crucial To Understand the Difference Between Principles and Techniques
By: Brian Kim - December 2, 2008
By: Brian Kim - December 2, 2008
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Nice guys revolve their entire lives around the women. Nice guys spend all their time dreaming of all the future possibilities with her. They do all this from the get go. What must I do to get her? I’ll write her poetry. I’ll take her out to the most expensive restaurant and show her how wealthy I am. I’ll buy her favorite pair of shoes that she mentioned in a conversation nine years ago. They’ll drop whatever they are doing at a drop of a dime and be at their beck and call 24/7. All acts reeking of extreme desperation. What’s the solution? Is it to try not to act desperate? These are when the “rules of dating” come into play. Call her three days later, act aloof, be a challenge. That’s all utter garbage. That’s all smoke and mirrors. Don’t try to fake not being desperate by following these “rules”. Just don’t be desperate naturally. How? Don’t make women the focal point in your life. Have something else going for you. Have a worthy goal or dream you are pursuing that is of higher priority than women. Have a dream. Have a goal and work toward it. Women will not seem that intimidating anymore. You won’t spend all your time with her. You won’t become “too easy” or “boring” because you’ve got something else going for you. Instead of using all your time, money, and energy pursing women, use all that to accomplish your own goals. Napoleon Hill refers to this as sexual transmutation. Channel all that energy into fulfilling your own goals and you will find yourself unstoppable. Go on your own program of self improvement. Nice guys place their worthiness and happiness on getting the girl. Instead of doing that, make your own life happy and worthwhile by pursuing your own goals and ambitions. Then, she’ll be the one asking, “What can I do to get him?”By adopting that third level natural mindset, everything flows naturally. You induce the right principle and the “techniques” that result from this are purely natural. Pure byproducts. You don’t have to “force” it. It will withstand the test of time and prove to be rock solid. This is the natural level. When you access this natural level, you naturally induce the principles and you naturally induce techniques that help get what you want. It’s the same thing with goal achievement. Most people get caught up in the minutia of it all by focusing on techniques like chanting, reciting affirmations, or some kind of other mental ritual, thereby pigeon holing themselves with whatever technique they’re using. Techniques are at the bottom of the list. Techniques alone will get you nowhere. Take for example, the technique of affirmations. You can do all the affirmations you want, but that alone will get you nowhere. The principle behind affirmations is that it forces you to concentrate on something positive and it’s repetitious so it drives the positive belief in that much faster. But what is the third level, the third level that induces all of that? Well you guessed it. It’s the natural level and what’s the natural level? It’s your natural success mechanism, which Napoleon Hill clearly alluded to as the hidden secret he left behind in his bestselling book Think and Grow Rich and it’s exactly what I outline in my book and prove with the clues Napoleon Hill gave. I also show exactly where it is in every chapter of Think and Grow Rich. When you access this natural level, you don’t have to learn every single principle and every single technique. You don’t have to chase your tail trying to force all of it. When you’re at the natural level, the principles and techniques you need to achieve your respective goal will be acquired naturally. This is why I’m so passionate about this book, because it frees people from technique thinking and more importantly frees people from principle thinking. Most, if not the vast majority of people are stuck in principle thinking. They begin first in techniques, but soon realize it’s too “artificial” and they then get stuck in “principles land”, thinking they’ve got all the principles covered, but then finding another and another and another, failing to realize how they’re all connected, and just getting overwhelmed at trying to apply all of them forcibly. Why do so many people get stuck in “principles land”? Because that’s the material all the experts are using. “Learn these 10 key principles.” “Here are the 24 principles of success.” “Know these principles and your life will change.” Principles are heralded as the be all, end all. But there’s the rub. There’s so many of them. Knowing that, some experts try to cut it down saying these 7 are THE most important but arguments can be made for/against that as well in terms of other principles as well. It’s a losing battle that many readers get sucked into, trying to make sense of it all. You want to get to the natural level, the uppermost level, where the principles and techniques you need will be derived naturally. That’s why there’s NO other book like The Hidden Secret in Think and Grow Rich in the entire world and it’s why people love it so much. It “cleans up” all the mess out there and makes sense of it by providing that all important “STRUCTURE” to it, to see how everything is connected and flows to induce the principles and techniques you need. Without understanding this structure and hierarchy, you will forever be stuck in a sea of techniques and principles, never getting to that “natural” level and trying to “force” it all with little results to show for it. Techniques are great for starters. Knowing the principles behind the techniques is even better. But when it’s all done naturally, that’s when you know you’re on a totally different level.
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August 14th, 2009 at
Good article. You hear a lot about “You give a person a fish, he eats for a day… teach a person to fish, he eats for his life”… why could this not be expanded further into instinctively teaching yourself the facts of life?
I’m a recent graduate from college in social sciences and I find the theories of the extended adolescence that is the 20s amusing, especially with movies coming out such as post-grad. Even from the age of 15, I couldn’t help but notice that youth expect a lot and are used to our parents doing almost everything for us. I think this applies not only to parenting but also any type of assistance ever given, especially social service programs. Yes, it’s important to give everyone a chance, but having techniques only isn’t good enough and will only slow the deterioration for a day. Teaching the principles will allow them to be barely self-sufficient and remain the same. Coming up with your own terms will allow you to challenge that which doesn’t work and move you forward.